How would you feel if your girlfriend kept lube and a couple (at least) of vibes in her cosmetic bag? For some reason I have become self conscious of my sexuality, or perhaps I am worried that he imagines I am insatiable. I should ask him whether it bothers him, shouldn't I.
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I would assume you're insatiable. Can't imagine it should be a problem!
how can it be anything other than a positive thing?; much worse to have a gf who has no desire for such pleasures.
Os .. being insatiable could be a problem, in that it puts too much pressure on a relationship. It's fun for a fantasy girlfriend .. but day to day?
You do have vibes in there so you can take care of yourself. My libido ramped up a few years ago and has stayed there. My husband is a little amused but mostly just thrilled at how frisky I am. It keeps him motivated to work-out and stay in shape so he has the energy to have fun with me. It is all good, sugar.
Yes, you should ask him, no you shouldn't try to change or hide it.
Married 16 years this month, together 26, I don't know what, why or when but she has retreated into asexuality over the years.
I'm as much lost today as that first night in the beautiful wonder of her mind & body.
But her reality has not blossomed; it has retreated, not from loss of love but thru catholic guilt and priority.
Today in her eyes this wonderful world of physical love is forgotten.
At the end of those tendrils of your mind are the remembrance of those first intimate discovery moments, the first explorations of another, the first sharing, the appreciation of you yourself and the willingness to share and discover another soul.
The electrical are just symptoms of your openness. Stay true, keep the batteries charged and share as you do with a full and delicate heart.
I have enjoyed watching you fall into this relationship with this good man.
I've enjoyed that he is your equal and that you share so much more together than you'd hoped.
A few months ago you'd worried about wanting him to slap your ass, today you are content that he can slide up to it and share a spoon in the quiet hours of the night.
Of course I deeply resent the fact a lot of your new posts have an "a" tag when its 20 years since I can remember her wanton joy. But that’s just me.
Since I first started following this blog when you were breaking up with your ex, I've watched you being horny and thankfully now will say it loud fall in love with this guy.
I came for the food, stayed for the recipes & kinkiness, was concerned for your want of discipline, have watched with joy at your new discovery and while deeply depressed at the amount of "a" and respect you two share, I have only one complaint - the recipe count has diminished.
Ooh that we could all be as lucky.
It’s your time with someone you love - enjoy it
"Should you ask him whether it bothers him - Bollox!”
He is happy you know what you want and know how to get it, and that you share this, and that he is included.
That you have vibes and lube only upsets the likes of me and my dirty mind.
It's just the one life on this earth, live it fully. Hell if you're feeling guilty, you can always phone him midway - the interference you hear on the line will only be his member competing with the local mobile mast!
No guilt over this, you're just a woman with a womans needs, as hes is with his mans needs.
Sure let him know you're away with supplies, he is home with the standard equipment.
I know who you both will be thinking of regardless.
Q.
Anon... respect!
If it were me, oh the thought that I should be so lucky, but if it were me, then I'd be happy to reassure you that your awareness of your body and it's needs causes me absolutely no concern.
Exactly what impression is he under about you and your sexuality? The man knows you and likes you. Would it really come as a shock to him to discover the lube and the vibe in your handbag? :)
Petunia - I like your point of view, 'thrilled and a little amused' is just about a perfect description!
Ceeej - I let him root around under my bed this weekend .. plenty of treasures to find and wonder at.
Q - you are a star, thank you. I promise; more recipes.
Freddy - but you are enlightenment supreme :)
Mon - i have my bag of toys, treats and books beside my bed .. it is all in the open, but yet he doesn't instigate using them. I am concerned i am hurting his feelings.
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